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Licensed!
K&H
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We are officially approved and licensed to adopt! All of our paperwork is done and now we are just waiting for a match! We're so excited!!
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2nd daughter born 3/8/2016 (bfp after 7 attempts at home ICI, 2 miscarriages, 1 D&C)
age 36
age 39
It worked! Two clomid cycles and two IUI's with injectables all BFN, on to IVF! 3dt of 2 perfect embryos on 12/15/14, BFP 7dp3dt! Frederick Lars born at 37 weeks on 8/15/15!! FET for #2 on 9/29/16 - BFP 5dp5dt!! Bertram Wilder and Mabel Moon born at 28.4 weeks on 3/29/17!
in our state you have to do foster parenting classes, it's a series of weeks, get fingerprinted, background check, references, and have a home study. The home study was three meetings, one with each of us individually and one together. Then the worker writes up a summary of everything and it gets approved by their supervisor. After that you are free to match and it's a waiting game to find the kid for whom you would be best. When a potential match is made you go to a disclosure meeting and hear every detail of that kiddo's life to determine if it is a good match. At that point most likely it's a tough time of continued visits with bio parents and eventual court to determine what will happen on their end. You could lose the child back to them or they could lose their rights. If their rights are terminated you wait six months and then you can adopt the child.
We learned after we started the process that there are some private agencies in our state who could potentially do the process and be your worker. We wished we would have done this rather than going through the state office as it seemed that for everyone else in our group it was much faster and more personal attention and focus.
It has been really emotional and hard all the way around, and were hoping it turns out to be worth it!
TTC No. 2 since Aug. 2014; IVF #1 - Cxld; IVF #2 - BFN