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Wasn't meant to be...

old mamaold mama Posts: 4,682
edited November -1 in Miscarriage/Loss
I lost the baby last night. Wed. night I had pain but no cramping or bleeding but cramping started Thurs. afternoon. I let things happen naturally. I know some of you have had cramping and bleeding and went on to have healthy pregnancies and because of that I will get checked out and retested next week but I don't hold out any hope. I don't regret trying and I had a fabulous week the time I had with my baby..and I feel that way about all my losses. I won't try again. I will have to pop on here to see what I hope are happy endings for the rest of you. Thank you for all your support.

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  • arogers470484arogers470484 Posts: 96
    edited November -1
    I'm so sorry. I'll still hold out hope for you that everything is all right.
  • JandRVAJandRVA Posts: 298
    edited November -1
    I am so sorry, old mama
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    Trying for Baby #2: 4th IUI June 2016 - BFP!
    Sweet little Rose was born on Feb 25th
    Baby #1: Lucky #7 July 2015 - BFP
    Our little girl, Hope, was born at 20w4d after PPRoM. She passed away 2 hours after birth.
  • b&kmakebabiesb&kmakebabies Posts: 818
    edited November -1
    I'm so sorry.
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    TTC from 06/2015...Baby M born 11/24/16!
  • FutureSMBCFutureSMBC Posts: 1,018
    edited November -1
    So sorry.
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    TTC since March 2015: 5 ICIs & 5 IUIs -all BFN
    July 2016- IVF w/BC/Lupron/Gonal-f/Ovidrel - converted to IUI- BFN
    Sept 2016-IVF w/BC/Lupron/Gonal-f/Ovidrel- Two 3d ET- BFP @ 9dp3dt, Beta#1: 209 @ 12dp3dt, #2: 782 @ 15dp3dt - EDD 6/3/17 - It's a Boy!
  • jessykah03jessykah03 Posts: 448
    edited November -1
    i am so sorry :(
    TTC since 05/2015: 6 home attempts (ICI): BFP (09/11/2015 ended in Nov 2015 with Donor 9319)
    3 times after loss ( Jan 2016, Feb 2016 and March 2016 all BFN. (with donor 9717)
    RE assisted IUI medicated 5/16 & 6/16 BPN
    ICI with donor 7062 August 2016-BPN
    ICI with IVF-IUI Vials 10/31 & 11/1
  • ahk00ahk00 Posts: 1,420
    edited November -1
    I am so sorry. Hoping and praying that baby is doing well. Hugs!
    SMBC: TTC since 12/2014: 3 home attempts: 2 BFN & 1 chemical. 3 medicated Dr assisted IUI's: 2 BFN & 1 BFP (04/24/15) with twins in May (new donor) MC with D&C @ 9w. 4th IUI 09/17/15: BFN. 10/15: hsg good. 11/15: BFN. 01/16: BFN. 05/16: Embryos arrested. IVF failed 06/16: KD BFN 07/16: KD BFN 09/16: IUI #7 with donor sperm BFP-MC at 9w w/ D&C. 02/17: diagnosed with hetero compound MTHFR & clotting mutation. 03/09/17 IUI #8: chemical pregnancy. IUI #9: 04/19/17 BFN LOOKING FOR EMBRYO'S TO ADOPT
  • New-mama?New-mama? Posts: 593
    edited November -1
    I'm sorry take care of yourself. Let us know if you need anyone to talk to
    TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
    May 2017 IUI BFP!!!!
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  • grovehill123grovehill123 Posts: 404
    edited November -1
    I am sorry.
  • perry261perry261 Posts: 561 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I am so sorry for your loss!
    Krystal - 28 - Future SMBC - PCOS - Pre-Diabetic - Insulin Resistant - MTHFR Carrier - Hypothyroidism - IUI 3/20/16 - BFN | ICI on 5/28/16 - BFP!! Sadly I miscarried on July 21, 2016 | ICI on 9/11/16 & 9/12/16 - BFN | IUI on 10/12/16 - BFP Due July 2017!!

    Charlese was born on June 17, 2017 at 8:33 AM. She was the most gorgeous baby I've ever seen. She came into this world weighing 7 lbs and 5ozs. She was 19 1/2 inches.

    Will try for #2 around September 2019! I’m ready to complete my family!
  • WantMoreKidsWantMoreKids Posts: 49
    edited November -1
    Sorry for your loss, I've been silently rooting for you!
    TTC #3 - Cycle 1-7/15 IUI=BFN Cycle 2-1/16 ICI=BFP(CP at 4wks 5day) Cycle 3-3/16 ICI=BFN Cycle 4-8/16 ICI=BFP (CP at 4wks 4day) Cycle 5-10/16 ICI=BFP (CP again)
  • piscespowerpiscespower Posts: 313
    edited October 2016
    So sorry old mama. ❤
    Baby #1 Erin 35 & Michael 39 (Met 3/98, Married 6/13). TTC since 10/08.
    3 losses: 8/12 @ 8 wks (ep); 11/13 @ 6 wks (mc); 1/14 @ 5 wks (ep,tube removed). 4 NW Donor Cycles: all BFNs. IVF: E.R. 7/2/16---12 retrieved, 8 mature, 6 fertilized through icsi, 5 made it to blast! PGS results: 3 out of 5 perfect! E.T. 2 5 day blasts on 8/30! BFP 4dp5dt! 6w4d u/s confirmed: It's twins!
  • Ksquared33Ksquared33 Posts: 56
    edited November -1
    So sorry :(
  • katookatoo Posts: 324
    edited November -1
    I am so very sorry for your loss.
  • StephnHeidsStephnHeids Posts: 407
    edited November -1
    So sorry :-(
  • ahk00ahk00 Posts: 1,420
    edited November -1
    How are you feeling?
    old mama wrote:
    I lost the baby last night. Wed. night I had pain but no cramping or bleeding but cramping started Thurs. afternoon. I let things happen naturally. I know some of you have had cramping and bleeding and went on to have healthy pregnancies and because of that I will get checked out and retested next week but I don't hold out any hope. I don't regret trying and I had a fabulous week the time I had with my baby..and I feel that way about all my losses. I won't try again. I will have to pop on here to see what I hope are happy endings for the rest of you. Thank you for all your support.
    SMBC: TTC since 12/2014: 3 home attempts: 2 BFN & 1 chemical. 3 medicated Dr assisted IUI's: 2 BFN & 1 BFP (04/24/15) with twins in May (new donor) MC with D&C @ 9w. 4th IUI 09/17/15: BFN. 10/15: hsg good. 11/15: BFN. 01/16: BFN. 05/16: Embryos arrested. IVF failed 06/16: KD BFN 07/16: KD BFN 09/16: IUI #7 with donor sperm BFP-MC at 9w w/ D&C. 02/17: diagnosed with hetero compound MTHFR & clotting mutation. 03/09/17 IUI #8: chemical pregnancy. IUI #9: 04/19/17 BFN LOOKING FOR EMBRYO'S TO ADOPT
  • handsomecowboohandsomecowboo Posts: 284
    edited October 2016
    So sorry! I'm sure this is horrible for you, but your attitude for your week with your baby is so inspirational! I'm keeping you in my thoughts
  • annie.murphannie.murph Posts: 26
    edited November -1
    I'm sorry old mama. You remain an inspiration for me, and for many others here i'm sure.
  • old mamaold mama Posts: 4,682
    edited November -1
    I just wanted to pop in and check how you were all doing...thank you for all your kind words. Progesterone held back most of the bleeding until Sunday and yesterday. It was almost a relief because I sure was in a lot of pain. I spoke to my dr. and I chose to just do pregnancy tests for the next few weeks until I test negative. I really don't want any other intervention. I am sad and still don't feel well... but I do not regret for one minute trying. Like I said I won't try again...I did everything I could with the resources available to me. I have a grandchild due in April and a son and his fiancé who will need my help. I wish you all the best of luck and hope all of you find a baby in your arms soon!
  • ahk00ahk00 Posts: 1,420
    edited November -1
    Old mama I am so sorry. I was hoping for a different outcome. Please keep us posted on how you are doing and how things are with the grand baby. Hugs
    SMBC: TTC since 12/2014: 3 home attempts: 2 BFN & 1 chemical. 3 medicated Dr assisted IUI's: 2 BFN & 1 BFP (04/24/15) with twins in May (new donor) MC with D&C @ 9w. 4th IUI 09/17/15: BFN. 10/15: hsg good. 11/15: BFN. 01/16: BFN. 05/16: Embryos arrested. IVF failed 06/16: KD BFN 07/16: KD BFN 09/16: IUI #7 with donor sperm BFP-MC at 9w w/ D&C. 02/17: diagnosed with hetero compound MTHFR & clotting mutation. 03/09/17 IUI #8: chemical pregnancy. IUI #9: 04/19/17 BFN LOOKING FOR EMBRYO'S TO ADOPT
  • hopeful2016hopeful2016 Posts: 81
    edited November -1
    I am so sorry old mama. *hugs*
  • ljimpey86ljimpey86 Posts: 387
    edited November -1
    I'm so sorry old mama. :( I'm praying for you.
    Wife to DH with hypopitutarism and azoospermia
    TTC~
    Try #1 ICI 8/15 -BFN
    Try #2 ICI & IUI 9/15 -BFP!

    Abbigail Helen born 6/5/2016 7lb6oz
  • kstarrkstarr Posts: 1,008
    edited November -1
    my heart breaks for you. i'm so sorry for your loss. sending you lots of love!
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    ICI #1 April 2012- BFN ICI #2 March 2013 BFN
    DH had vasectomy reversal October 2013. It worked!!!
    Counts are low, varicocele surgery was in August 2014.
    IVF February 2016 w/ICSI transferred 2 perfect blastocysts. It's twins!!!!
    Two perfect, beautiful boys born 10/24/16!!
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