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Park "bullies"
michgirl
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We have a really "fun" park in town that the boys LOVE. The park is less than a mile from the state park campground. The state park does not have a "fun" play ground just one set of swings and one slide, so a lot of campers let their kids walk down the park and use the "fun" playground.
The problem is these kids are usually bigger and are "testing out" the lack of mom and dad around. They usually end up on top of the swings, on the outside of the tunnels, on the roof of the fort etc.
Last night there was a group of kids there playing like that but they started blocking little kids (my kids and others) from using part of the playground.
Where is the "line" when speaking to other people's kids? I asked/told these kids to stop it and the little kids could play there too, and they replied with "you are not my mom and I do not have to listen to you". Later they scared Jax and made him cry so we left but the boys then cried about having to leave early. So what do I do??????
The problem is these kids are usually bigger and are "testing out" the lack of mom and dad around. They usually end up on top of the swings, on the outside of the tunnels, on the roof of the fort etc.
Last night there was a group of kids there playing like that but they started blocking little kids (my kids and others) from using part of the playground.
Where is the "line" when speaking to other people's kids? I asked/told these kids to stop it and the little kids could play there too, and they replied with "you are not my mom and I do not have to listen to you". Later they scared Jax and made him cry so we left but the boys then cried about having to leave early. So what do I do??????
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If the kids' parents aren't around, I don't think that much of a "line" even exists.
You're the adult, the kids aren't behaving appropriately .... I think you have every right to make a firm request that they behave differently.
And so what if you're "not his mom" ..... it doesn't matter because you're an "adult" .... that's all that matters. Now, he obviously hasn't been taught to respect adults (or children), but it won't hurt to show him that he needs to respect you.
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Maggie
If they dont use your cell phone and call the police. Serious... you kids should feel safe
I did so on an occasion with the little brats (prolly ages 8, 10, and 12) in my neighborhood who were throwing rocks at my back deck and climbing on a tree on my property. I did not mind them in the tree, but the rock thing had to stop. Luckily, my landlord is a police officer Her beat partner came by with all his gear on and asked the boys where they lived, their names, their parents names, etc. He had to do nothing further. They boys were surprisingly very cooperative.
I would call mostly because the other children's parents are responsible for their behavior, and unfortunately they are not around to supervise. This probably is a symptom of a larger family problem. Kids need to be taught to respect adults, even if they have to learn the hard way, I will not hesitate to facilitate that lesson.