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getting custody of my nephew
kstarr
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it would appear that i'll be gaining custody of my 14 year old nephew soon. his dad (who has custody of him now) has been neglecting to really care for him for awhile and my sister, well, she's not the greatest of mothers. when she divorced her husband when my nephew was 3, she had custody for a few months. then she started dating her boyfriend who didn't like kids and she chose him over her children. eleven years later and here we are with a very damaged child that needs a lot of love and attention. and i am fully capable of giving it to him. she now has custody of her 11 year old. but in previous years she has picked a guy over her sons and is WAY more concerned about her schooling than her children. don't get me wrong, an education is very important, but she went about it all wrong and now her children are paying for it. she wanted and tried for these children when she was 20. then she realized that raising kids takes sacrifices and she didn't want to do it. i feel bad that i couldn't take him sooner but i didn't have the means. now i do and i really hope i can help him. he's so angry and broken that i know i'll have to tread carefully in the beginning. the good thing is that i know he trusts me, unlike anyone else in the family. this is going to be a huge change for my husband and i. now if only i can get to the beginning of the year so we can try for our own. i think if my nephew is in a positive, stable house he can grow up to be a good, functional adult, unlike his parents.
ICI #1 April 2012- BFN ICI #2 March 2013 BFN
DH had vasectomy reversal October 2013. It worked!!!
Counts are low, varicocele surgery was in August 2014.
IVF February 2016 w/ICSI transferred 2 perfect blastocysts. It's twins!!!!
Two perfect, beautiful boys born 10/24/16!!
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Progesterone therapy and baby aspirin daily
Two miscarriages in between (August 2012 - same donor as Maggie, and December 2014 with husband)
Maggie
@babybaby-- wow. i thought my sister was bad. i don't even know what i would do with that woman. with my sister i just try to call her out on her crap and take the heat when she gets mad. my sister drinks a lot and used to be addicted to pain pills. she was all about her kids when she was pregnant and when they were very little. she worked and was a somewhat functioning adult. but as soon as she met her worthless boyfriend who didn't like kids, that went all down hill. she always blames their father for stupid stuff he does, but at least he somewhat supported them while she moved in with her boyfriend. her boyfriend didn't want the kids at the house so every other weekend when she had them, she took them to my parents house. and at 9pm, if the kids were asleep or not, she'd go back over to her boyfriend's. what i don't understand is that we grew up in a very loving family. my parents have been married for 31 years and are really happy. we have a big extended family that we spend a lot of time with (well, i did before i became an army wife). how did she manage to screw up so bad?
ICI #1 April 2012- BFN ICI #2 March 2013 BFN
DH had vasectomy reversal October 2013. It worked!!!
Counts are low, varicocele surgery was in August 2014.
IVF February 2016 w/ICSI transferred 2 perfect blastocysts. It's twins!!!!
Two perfect, beautiful boys born 10/24/16!!
Progesterone therapy and baby aspirin daily
Two miscarriages in between (August 2012 - same donor as Maggie, and December 2014 with husband)
Maggie
ICI #1 April 2012- BFN ICI #2 March 2013 BFN
DH had vasectomy reversal October 2013. It worked!!!
Counts are low, varicocele surgery was in August 2014.
IVF February 2016 w/ICSI transferred 2 perfect blastocysts. It's twins!!!!
Two perfect, beautiful boys born 10/24/16!!
ICI #1 April 2012- BFN ICI #2 March 2013 BFN
DH had vasectomy reversal October 2013. It worked!!!
Counts are low, varicocele surgery was in August 2014.
IVF February 2016 w/ICSI transferred 2 perfect blastocysts. It's twins!!!!
Two perfect, beautiful boys born 10/24/16!!
ICI #1 April 2012- BFN ICI #2 March 2013 BFN
DH had vasectomy reversal October 2013. It worked!!!
Counts are low, varicocele surgery was in August 2014.
IVF February 2016 w/ICSI transferred 2 perfect blastocysts. It's twins!!!!
Two perfect, beautiful boys born 10/24/16!!