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I don't have a daddy
annerbones
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Yep, that's what Maggie said yesterday. We were in the car with my mom driving somewhere and she was talking about a little boy in her class and how his daddy picked him up from school. The said "Alex has a daddy, I don't have a daddy." It was so matter of fact.
Almost 2 weeks ago when we were at the hospital she asked about where her daddy was - after she had had surgery. For the first time ever I had to tell her in front of someone other than my parents that she didn't have a daddy but that she did have a mommy and a nana...etc. who all loved her very much. Then she told my friend - some people don't have daddies.
Is this a typical age for it to start to click - or is this just practice?
Almost 2 weeks ago when we were at the hospital she asked about where her daddy was - after she had had surgery. For the first time ever I had to tell her in front of someone other than my parents that she didn't have a daddy but that she did have a mommy and a nana...etc. who all loved her very much. Then she told my friend - some people don't have daddies.
Is this a typical age for it to start to click - or is this just practice?
Progesterone therapy and baby aspirin daily
Two miscarriages in between (August 2012 - same donor as Maggie, and December 2014 with husband)
Maggie
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How did the surgery go? Hope she is doing well.
Surgery went awesome. She had a horrible recovery room experience, but we will get past that. She was up and running and talking within 2 hours of surgery. We made her open her mouth to make sure they had removed her tonsils because the nurses, my mom, my friend, no one could believe she had just had them out. We are super glad we had them taken out too, her adenoids had puss on them - she has been on antibiotics most of her life so we were all surprised.
Funny thing (expected it) her voice changed, now it is all high and squeaky - before it was much lower, it is taking come getting use to.
Progesterone therapy and baby aspirin daily
Two miscarriages in between (August 2012 - same donor as Maggie, and December 2014 with husband)
Maggie
Glad to hear Maggie is doing better. I have been thinking of posting to ask but life has been crazy here for a week with Z sick. It sounds like she'll do so much better now.
he knows he doesn't have a dad, but he also knows he has a FAMILY. and that's important.
I bought "the family book" by Todd Parr and we read it all the time
DS (7) - d#470
Boy, n.: a noise with dirt on it.
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What is tricky, in terms of comprehension at this age, is that "where babies come from" and "what parents you have" are not really correlated. The fact that families are made of different kinds of people, doesn't make it clear to kids that some kids never had a 'dad'.
I was surprised to hear my son talk about conversations he has had with his peers that we have never really had at home. Like, if I hadn't asked, he wouldn't have mentioned it. I think it's important that we all keep it in mind and be cognizant of what our children internalize when we are not around. My conversation with my son was a reminder that, even though he doesn't really seem bothered, he still needs to have a basic understanding of his family make up, since it is not like the other families of his friends at school. I want to be able to arm him with as much information as he can handle so that he doesn't feel like confused, or inadequate, or like he should have something because the other kids have it.