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Huge tantrum at preschool!
roses25
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I went to visit Aiden at preschool today while Addison went to the sitter's to try the bottle. He was so excited for me to come. However, he threw a huge 30 minute fit all because I helped put away the recess toys. I mean a huge fit and he was screaming I don't like you mom in front of his whole class while they ate. I thought maybe they would do timeout or whatever they would do if I wasn't there, but they didn't. Aiden shocked them all because he's so quiet has never.done that at school before. What wold you have done if your child did this? I was so embarassed. I'm almost hesitant to go back to visit again because I'm afraid he'll do this again and disrupt his whole class.
I see these huge fits at home. He'll say he doesn't like me or he hates this or that (we don't use that word at home so he picked it up from somewhere else) when he's in a tantrum and then when he's not in a tantrum he'll tell me how much he loves me as long as I don't take a time-out.
I see these huge fits at home. He'll say he doesn't like me or he hates this or that (we don't use that word at home so he picked it up from somewhere else) when he's in a tantrum and then when he's not in a tantrum he'll tell me how much he loves me as long as I don't take a time-out.
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Was he upset because you were helping? Because you weren't with him? Did you figure it out?
Do these tantrums worry you? If they do - his teachers are great resources to support you
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Two miscarriages in between (August 2012 - same donor as Maggie, and December 2014 with husband)
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How much of this is new behavior since the baby was born, and how much was going on before? I did find that Justin's behavior escalated after Juliet was born, peaked around 4-5 months later, and has really gotten a lot better since I've been playing up what a great big brother, mommy's helper, sister's helper he is, pointing out specific examples right after he's done something positive. He may be frustrated by jealousy and acting out at you because negative attention is better than no attention. Justin used to hit Juliet to make her cry to get my attention when I was busy. Now he tells me I'm a bad mommy when he's feeling left out, which is an improvement over involving his sister.
Is there a way to carve out some one-on-one time just for him each day that he can look forward to? He's probably processing a ton of new info these days on how the family dynamic has changed and wants some reassurance of his place in the mix.