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Skooled the OB on 'gender' & DNA blood testing
scifimom
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I had my dating ultra sound yesterday. Will post pic later. Anyways, the OB said I they have a new test for genetic abnormalities. It's a blood draw of my blood to retrieve the babies DNA, I guess floating around in there somewhere! It can be done by 10 weeks and I'm waiting on the hospital to call me it schedule it. So cool!!! I so appreciate the idea of finding out problems really early in the pregnancy so I can decide what I want to do. What do you all think about this test and it's accuracy? Thanks!
OB also mentioned I can find out the baby's gender (his words)! So cool! On a side note, there was a magazine with a story about transgender persons on the cover sitting in the ultrasound room. So when the OB said gender, I said, you know saying gender isn't PC anymore? Because of the transgender possibility. Well, I said something to that effect and I wasn't trying to be snarky with the use of the term, "PC". I just spouted out the best way I could explain because it felt appropriate to say something. He was cool about it. Anyways, just thought some of you would think that was cool.
I plan to do a 'boy bits or girl bits?'/diaper party with family. I will be the only one to know, not maybe the usual way of doing it. But it will be a fun celebration of the baby. I want to have a smash cake for my daughter, with blue berries or strawberries inside. That will be the way every one finds out. I guess we get to do it sooner than later.
OB also mentioned I can find out the baby's gender (his words)! So cool! On a side note, there was a magazine with a story about transgender persons on the cover sitting in the ultrasound room. So when the OB said gender, I said, you know saying gender isn't PC anymore? Because of the transgender possibility. Well, I said something to that effect and I wasn't trying to be snarky with the use of the term, "PC". I just spouted out the best way I could explain because it felt appropriate to say something. He was cool about it. Anyways, just thought some of you would think that was cool.
I plan to do a 'boy bits or girl bits?'/diaper party with family. I will be the only one to know, not maybe the usual way of doing it. But it will be a fun celebration of the baby. I want to have a smash cake for my daughter, with blue berries or strawberries inside. That will be the way every one finds out. I guess we get to do it sooner than later.
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TTC #2: IVF April 2017
BFP: FET Due February 2018
Just an FYI: if you are not over 35, or have a history of down's or other trisomies in your family, your insurance probably won't cover it. We had to sign a paper that said if our insurance denied it we would be responsible for the entire $1200.
TTC #2: IVF April 2017
BFP: FET Due February 2018
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Lucky Cycle 14: IVF!! Antagonist Cycle with Lupron Trigger
IUI~BFP (BORN STILL) AT 16w5d 4/3/14
Chemicals~IUI 7/24/14;8/21;BFNs~9/25;10/19;IVF#1-2/21/15~No embies made to blast.
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TTC No. 2 since Aug. 2014; IVF #1 - Cxld; IVF #2 - BFN
From what I think I heard, it's 99% accurate at giving positive results. Negative results are much closer to 100% than positives. The only 100% accurate test is the amino, cvs is not 100%. False positives are caused by things like the placenta or maybe he said umbilical cord having an abnormality but not the baby. Dr said there's different cell lines involved and that's the point. They will look at my DNA and the baby/pregnancy DNA all together. If there are abnormalities, they know it's not mine since I'm healthy. The geneticist recommended backing up positive results with an amino because that's the only 100% test. Unfortunately the amino can't be performed until well into the second trimester. I know for me personally, after hearing how the test works, I personally would either use this test alone or back it up with a cvs to make my decision on whether or not to continue the pregnancy. Although the geneticist said he's seen a false positive, I know from personal experience that each week makes for a more dramatic loss mentally, physically, spiritually. Naturally I'm hoping I won't be faced with any tough decisions.
It tests for 3 trisomy disorders which include downs. Right at the end the geneticist said I can also throw on the test 5 or 6 other things that cause mental retardation. I didn't ask for more details on those because I needed to get to work and I didn't anticipate a big long chat session before they took my blood. I was offered to know the sex and he checked that box for me.
On a happy note, we have the reveal party planned for a few weeks when my big brother will be in from out of state during our yearly family reunion. He, his girlfriend, his son, and her daughter had car problems last year and couldn't make it. So they haven't even met my daughter yet! It's super cool I will have these results and we get to do something extra fun for their visit. I was on Pinterest a bunch last night and talking to my mom about how to make the reveal party fun!
Edited to add, the geneticist will call me personally in 7-8 days, includes weekend, with the results!
Also, I shouldn't have been calling him a geneticist, I don't believe, definitely not a dr. Whatever, he holds a lot of power and authority over me right now and works in the medical field so that probably caused my blunder .
I also wanted to say, I spoke with a close-ish friend and she had a false positive for downs on the amino test, so you never know! I clearly *think* I remember the counselor saying it's 100% accurate. Whatever, that's the medical field, you gotta sometimes take the bad to get the good.
Can't wait for this guy to call!!!
I hope you get the call soon to put your mind at ease!! I hope they don't make you wait much longer!
Good luck!! Let us know the results!!
TTC #2: IVF April 2017
BFP: FET Due February 2018
TTC #2: since June 2016...
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TTC #2: since June 2016...
TTC #2: since June 2016...
I got my results, I got the best results they can give: 1 in 10,000 chance for the things they in which they are testing. Sorry, no saying the sex of the baby until after our reveal party. I know it wouldn't affect anything to say it here, but I'm being sentimental and just waiting till after the party. What a relief to have good results!
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