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What would you do: daycare vs babysitter.
njmomma
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My daughter is going to nursery school. She started in June and she really likes it. It took her only one week to adjust and she goes there with no problems. Prior to that she used to go to very small in-home daycare for about 9 months, and she could never fully adjust to it, she cried almost every day.
Anyway, fall is here and winter is coming and I assume there will be lots of germs / illnesses around especially in areas where there are lots of kids, right? My daughter just got over her strep throat that she got from her daycare and it seems like all the kids are running around there with runny noses and coughing. I am afraid that she will be getting sick there a lot during winter months.
I am thinking about bringing her to a new babysitter's house until spring just to avoid her getting sick a lot. The babysitter was recommended to me by a friend, and she is a sister-in-law of my former co-worker (so she is not a complete stranger). The only thing is that she only has 1 son there, who just turned 1 year old (she is a stay at home mom). I took my daughter to meet her and her baby, and my daughter was not a happy camper at all.
My main concern is that my daughter will be really bored there, since that boy is only 1 year old, and she is 2 and a half and there are no other kids. I am not sure how she will adjust too. But on the other hand, I am so scared of all the illnesses that I hear going around the daycare.
I need your opinions. I honestly don't know what to do. What would you do? If you have a child in a daycare, how often does she/ he get sick there? Are winter months much worse in regards to getting sick in daycare? Do you prefer a babysitter over a daycare or vice versa? Thanks.
Anyway, fall is here and winter is coming and I assume there will be lots of germs / illnesses around especially in areas where there are lots of kids, right? My daughter just got over her strep throat that she got from her daycare and it seems like all the kids are running around there with runny noses and coughing. I am afraid that she will be getting sick there a lot during winter months.
I am thinking about bringing her to a new babysitter's house until spring just to avoid her getting sick a lot. The babysitter was recommended to me by a friend, and she is a sister-in-law of my former co-worker (so she is not a complete stranger). The only thing is that she only has 1 son there, who just turned 1 year old (she is a stay at home mom). I took my daughter to meet her and her baby, and my daughter was not a happy camper at all.
My main concern is that my daughter will be really bored there, since that boy is only 1 year old, and she is 2 and a half and there are no other kids. I am not sure how she will adjust too. But on the other hand, I am so scared of all the illnesses that I hear going around the daycare.
I need your opinions. I honestly don't know what to do. What would you do? If you have a child in a daycare, how often does she/ he get sick there? Are winter months much worse in regards to getting sick in daycare? Do you prefer a babysitter over a daycare or vice versa? Thanks.
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Does she take Vit C everyday? Sleep with the window open? These help, in my opinion
Be grateful you found a place she is happy - there is a lot to be said for that
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I was always really fearful too about the mass of germs at daycare, but as others have said too you can't live your life in germ avoidance mode because a simple trip to the supermarket could infect you all with something awful too. :-P
Yes, her first winter might be a bit rough, and while that is not a very comforting thought right now, her immune system will be infinitely more strong for it by next year! Someone recently said to me that they either have to build up their immunity (through this kind of exposure) at daycare or at school, and personally I would much rather it was before my kids hit school age because then it is their day-to-day education being effected by lots of time off school through the winter months.
And yes, if your daughter is happy at her current place, that TOTALLY trumps the illness issue in my mind, because I could not handle it if I knew my son (and my daughter, who has just started at my son's daycare last week) were unhappy on a daily basis at the babysitters, versus being happy at the daycare - albeit getting sick a few times through winter.
Good luck with your decision though! I know it is really tough, because I hated the illness aspect last year too. But it WILL improve as she gets more and more exposure, I promise. :-)
MNmommas, you are right, my job is in jeopardy. I call out every single week, miss about half of my time that I am supposed to be there. I don't get sick days, so if I am out, I don't get payed and we are losing money. And now I am really scared to lose my job.
As SMBC and having only one income, how did you survive when there is nobody except for you to take care of the child when she is sick and you have to miss work a lot? Am I the only one with a little child that gets sick soooooo often? And it all started when she started the daycare.
Now that you explained a little more about your situation I might feel differently about moving her. If she is happy there come spring would leaving her there be an option? I just hate to see her going back and forth for this reason.
Do you do things to help build her immune system?
Shanny, what do you recommend for building her immune system? I bought children's multivitamins, but she refuses to take them, I even bought different brand and thought she might prefer something else, but still no luck, she refuses to take her multivitamins.
I was also thinking about fish oil since it has lots of vitamin D, but she would not take it either.
I have a humidifier in our bedroom every night. I honestly don't know what else I can do.
Any suggestions ladies? Thanks.
Edited to add: Also we wash our hands ALL the time. I even called the daycare director today and asked her about handwashing policy at the daycare. She said that they wash their hands every time before they eat and after they come back from the playground.
Silver colloidal - hide it in smoothies etc
vitamin D - chewable berry flavor
probiotic - chewable berry flavor
fish oil - though she has recently stopped taking this because she cannot tolerate cod
elderberry syrup
I know there was one or two more at the height of it. I honestly have no idea if it helped or not. I feel like the elderberry syrup does make a difference if you take it in the winter. I actually took it this morning because I woke up with a sore throat. If you have a good health food store you could ask them for suggestions as well.
With 3 kids now, appointments for dentists and doctors are killing me. I was wondering what other singles do -- or couples if both work full time!