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8 weeks 2 days and bleeding now :(

tinydancertinydancer Posts: 1,210 ✭
edited October 2015 in Pregnancy and Babies
im the girl who has the baby measuring several days behind (6) and saw a heartbeat at the visit at 6 weeks 3 days. BUT I woke this morning with alot of blood. heaviness in pelvis 3rd day now.
also I can usually hear with my doppler around 7 1/2 weeks w my pregnancies and havent heard a thing so far.
this whole pregnancy I have been worried that it would end. that weird intuition... and when I finally started to feel like it was going to happen, IM BLEEDING!

Im super upset. lump in throat. I see Dr at 10am and hoping I get a scan. I have NEVER had bleeding this far along where it turned out ok. (many losses)

UPDATE: its a loss. no heartbeat seen. baby passed at 6 weeks.

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    K&HK&H Posts: 3,368 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Oh no! I'm so sorry.
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    old mamaold mama Posts: 4,682 ✭
    edited November -1
    Hang in there. You are in my thoughts. Maybe it will be OK..several women on here have had bleeds.
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    hoping4number2hoping4number2 Posts: 321
    edited November -1
    I had a horrible bleed at 11w5d and passed a big clot and thought for sure it was over. It wasn't I am so so so hopeful that yours turns out the same. Good luck to you. Seeing blood is so incredibly frightening and horrific - no matter what the outcome. Thinking of you!
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    tinydancertinydancer Posts: 1,210 ✭
    edited November -1
    thank you all. I did go in for an ultrasound. they did 2 actually. no heart beat. bay stopped growing 3-4 days after that last ultrasound that showed a heartbeat :( so 6 weeks and 1 day. I knew something wasnt right this whole pregnancy. I just didnt feel much for symptoms and that had me worried.
    Im cramping and bleeding more now so thankfully my body knows what to do this time. I still took one pill just now to get it done quicker.

    I will likely try only one more time with a donor. Im 40 and this is far too stressful to keep having losses.
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    JandRVAJandRVA Posts: 298
    edited November -1
    I am so sorry, tinydancer.
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    Trying for Baby #2: 4th IUI June 2016 - BFP!
    Sweet little Rose was born on Feb 25th
    Baby #1: Lucky #7 July 2015 - BFP
    Our little girl, Hope, was born at 20w4d after PPRoM. She passed away 2 hours after birth.
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    hopeful2014hopeful2014 Posts: 428
    edited November -1
    I'm so sorry! :(
    35 years old - SMBC * 3 ICIs, 6 IUIs, 1 ectopic, 1 chemical, blocked left tube.
    Lucky #10 - IVF!
    Two sweet baby girls (IVF 2015, FET 2017)
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    old mamaold mama Posts: 4,682 ✭
    edited November -1
    I am so sorry. My heart is breaking for you.
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    diane&tammydiane&tammy Posts: 1,467
    edited November -1
    I'm so sorry. :(
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    Jen&TiffJen&Tiff Posts: 156
    edited November -1
    I am so sorry for your loss. :(
    Trying since June 2015 for baby #1. Took a break for 8 months and are trying again!
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    Mommy2016Mommy2016 Posts: 1,037
    edited November -1
    I'm very sorry for your loss. :(
    Luca Gabriel was born 10/25/17 at 34 weeks, due to PROM. He's healthy and perfect! I'm in love!
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    StephnHeidsStephnHeids Posts: 407
    edited November -1
    So sorry :'(
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    Jlfttc2015Jlfttc2015 Posts: 29
    edited November -1
    So sorry:(
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    tinydancertinydancer Posts: 1,210 ✭
    edited November -1
    thank you. I look terrible today. very pale and still in shock so I have no real feelings other than anger.
    everything was passed relatively quick yesterday. I was already having contractions in the morning on my own, then harder by 11am w more blood. at 2pm I took the misoprostal and by 6 I was REALLy uncomfy. I took another pill orally this time and I passed everything swiftly at 8pm. baby was in the intact sac floating around. just a perfect baby- I could see a heart, stomach and eye with a perfect formed body. the only thing that was off was the tissue that becomes the placenta was greyish, therefore old and died off awhile ago. I took some pics. felt a connection and then buried the baby and tissue in a flower pot thats blooming right now.
    Im not really bleeding today so I hope this will be an easy recovery. I have had losses in the past where I was close to needing a blood transfusion (probably because the baby died but I kept growing everything else till I took the pills and herbs)
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    blkbrd3blkbrd3 Posts: 1,221 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    I have no words to express my condolences.

    Take care of yourself.
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    WannabeasinglemamaWannabeasinglemama Posts: 969 ✭
    edited November -1
    So sorry for your loss!
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    IUI~BFP (BORN STILL) AT 16w5d 4/3/14
    Chemicals~IUI 7/24/14;8/21;BFNs~9/25;10/19;IVF#1-2/21/15~No embies made to blast.
    IVF#2-BFP~4/16 trans. 2 embies
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