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Christmas gift for single parent from child idea

roses25roses25 Posts: 567
edited November -1 in Parenting and Life
Hi Everyone,

I just wanted to share a tradition I've started with my children that took until my oldest was about 5 to figure out. We don't live near family members, so my children aren't able to consistently go shopping with someone to get a Christmas gift for me. We also live over an hour from a Wal-Mart and most other shopping stores, so it's not always easy to have someone here take them Christmas shopping either. I thought there might be some other single parents here that are looking for a way to give their younger children a chance to give their parent a Christmas gift.

I bought something I would like as a gift, put it in a box, and put mailing labels addressed to my children on it to make it look like it came from Santa Claus at the North Pole. Then I put a letter in the box giving directions to my children. Their sitter in the past has helped them read the letter and wrap the gift. Now that we have an elf on the shelf, I sat our elf by the box with the gift in it, with wrapping paper, tape, and a letter from Santa explaining the gift that our elf brought back. My son now is a good enough reader that he should be able to read the letter to his sister and him plus wrap the present. I've done this for 2-3 years now, and it seems to work well.

Carolyn
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    ahk00ahk00 Posts: 1,420
    edited November -1
    I love this idea. My son is 11 and he is so worried about me not getting any presents under the tree. We don't live far from my parents but I am not sure if he asked them to take him shopping like he did last year. He bought me one gift and refused to open his gifts until I opened mine. It melted my heart. Merry Christmas
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    FutureSMBCFutureSMBC Posts: 1,018
    edited November -1
    That's beautiful! I love the "magic" behind it.
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    blkbrd3blkbrd3 Posts: 1,221 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    That's a lovely idea. Thank you for sharing it with us.
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    KariKari Posts: 1,765
    edited November -1
    Good idea. Santa brings my kids 3 gifts each, and I've always had him bring me 3 as well. This year was the first year that Justin was very concerned that my only gift might be the one he'd made at daycare for me. I reassured him that Santa wouldn't forget me, but I think next year he'd like to actually choose something for me as well. This year I started having him get Juliet a gift, and Juliet get him a gift. To make this easier, I asked for suggestions and then went shopping while they were both in daycare. Next year I may have him go shopping with me and choose a surprise for Juliet and me that's just from him.
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