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He's here!

merryshannonmerryshannon Posts: 503
edited November -1 in Pregnancy and Babies
Sorry it took so long to post an update, this new parenthood thing is no joke :P

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Labor started around 10:30 pm last Thursday, just in time for his 4-8-16 due date. I went from zero contractions to having them every 2-5 minutes... We got to the hospital, got admitted, and got an epidural right away. I was able to sleep for a few hours after that, even. Dilated to 9.5 but then stalled out. Doc let me try four rounds of pushing, by then I had a fever and baby was not tolerating the pushing well, they suspected a uterine infection and had to do a c-section. I was more disappointed than I thought j would be, not because of fearing the c-section but fearing the recovery after. Still, he was not coming out on his own and would need time in the NICU as it was to fight the potential infection.

He was born at 4:04 PM on 4-8-16, weighing 9lbs 2oz. He had a head circumference of 14.5 inches and the doctors and nurses all kept commenting what a big baby he was - his little head and eyes were bruised from labor, too. At that point I was more grateful for the c-section as even if he had been a vaginal delivery it would have banged both of us up really badly.

Anyway, we were in the hospital for four days. Recovery has been as slow and painful as I expected, got even worse when my milk finally came in and the pain meds could not keep up with everything that hurt all at once. But he's here, and he is so sweet, and his mommies just love him to death.

So here's our little Searc D'Artagnan <3

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Early ovarian failure. 4 failed ICIs, 6 failed IUIs. Donor Egg IVF in Greece: IVF#1 12/2014 - BFP, miscarried at 6WK3D. IVF #2 4/2015 - BFN. IVF#3 7/2015 - BFP. Baby boy Searc born 4/8/16 - 9lbs, 2 oz <3

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    RedHeatherRedHeather Posts: 600 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Congratulations!
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    old mamaold mama Posts: 4,682
    edited November -1
    Adorable. You are a beautiful family. Congratulations.
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    MomsT&OMomsT&O Posts: 103
    edited November -1
    Congratulations! :)
    Moms to a 4 year old (NW conceived)
    Angel Baby 08/13/2016
    TTC our Rainbow starting September 2018!
    Me (24, carrying) DW (23)
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    katelmkatelm Posts: 268
    edited November -1
    Congrats, mamas! What a perfect little babe. Wishing you a speedy recovery!
    My amazing wife is the bedrock of our family. Three beloved foster children now in far flung places. One beautiful son born in March 2011. One amazing daughter born December 2014. We are blessed!

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    hopeful2014hopeful2014 Posts: 428
    edited November -1
    Congratulations!! He's adorable :)

    I hope you continue to feel better! Are you using an abdominal binder? I was given one in the hospital after my c-section and it really helped. I wore it until about 5 weeks postpartum. Mine was more of a surgical one as opposed to something like the belly bandit.
    35 years old - SMBC * 3 ICIs, 6 IUIs, 1 ectopic, 1 chemical, blocked left tube.
    Lucky #10 - IVF!
    Two sweet baby girls (IVF 2015, FET 2017)
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    piscespowerpiscespower Posts: 313
    edited November -1
    Aww, so sweet! Congrats, mommas!
    Baby #1 Erin 35 & Michael 39 (Met 3/98, Married 6/13). TTC since 10/08.
    3 losses: 8/12 @ 8 wks (ep); 11/13 @ 6 wks (mc); 1/14 @ 5 wks (ep,tube removed). 4 NW Donor Cycles: all BFNs. IVF: E.R. 7/2/16---12 retrieved, 8 mature, 6 fertilized through icsi, 5 made it to blast! PGS results: 3 out of 5 perfect! E.T. 2 5 day blasts on 8/30! BFP 4dp5dt! 6w4d u/s confirmed: It's twins!
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    StephnHeidsStephnHeids Posts: 407
    edited April 2016
    YAY!! Congratulations!! He is so cute!

    P.S. Your maternity pictures are AMAZING!
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    New-mama?New-mama? Posts: 593
    edited November -1
    Congrats he is adorable
    TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
    May 2017 IUI BFP!!!!
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    kelleymelkelleymel Posts: 1,402
    edited November -1
    Congratulations! That's one handsome guy you have!
    TTC #1: BFP Cycle #11 IVF (2014)
    TTC #2: IVF April 2017
    BFP: FET Due February 2018
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    kstarrkstarr Posts: 1,008
    edited November -1
    congratulations!
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    DH had vasectomy reversal October 2013. It worked!!!
    Counts are low, varicocele surgery was in August 2014.
    IVF February 2016 w/ICSI transferred 2 perfect blastocysts. It's twins!!!!
    Two perfect, beautiful boys born 10/24/16!!
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    tinydancertinydancer Posts: 1,210
    edited November -1
    yay!!!!!!!!!! congrats to you both on the new adventure
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    diane&tammydiane&tammy Posts: 1,467
    edited November -1
    Congratulations!! =D Beautiful!!
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    handsomecowboohandsomecowboo Posts: 284
    edited November -1
    How sweet you all are! What a beautiful new family!
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    jones.mom02jones.mom02 Posts: 295
    edited November -1
    He is beautiful!!! And I absolutely love the pregnancy photo of you two!! Congratulations mommies!!!!!!!
    Celebrating 10 years together with 2 precious babies.
    Born: Jan, 2016 Home 2 IUI, partner carried
    Born: Nov, 2016 Home 1 ICI, I carried
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    TurtlehartTurtlehart Posts: 834
    edited November -1
    Yay!!!
    Our sweet boy has arrived after TTC'ing for 4 years!
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    ahk00ahk00 Posts: 1,420
    edited November -1
    Congratulations. He is beautiful! !!
    SMBC: TTC since 12/2014: 3 home attempts: 2 BFN & 1 chemical. 3 medicated Dr assisted IUI's: 2 BFN & 1 BFP (04/24/15) with twins in May (new donor) MC with D&C @ 9w. 4th IUI 09/17/15: BFN. 10/15: hsg good. 11/15: BFN. 01/16: BFN. 05/16: Embryos arrested. IVF failed 06/16: KD BFN 07/16: KD BFN 09/16: IUI #7 with donor sperm BFP-MC at 9w w/ D&C. 02/17: diagnosed with hetero compound MTHFR & clotting mutation. 03/09/17 IUI #8: chemical pregnancy. IUI #9: 04/19/17 BFN LOOKING FOR EMBRYO'S TO ADOPT
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    merryshannonmerryshannon Posts: 503
    edited November -1
    Thanks guys!

    Hopeful2014 - the hospital didn't give me any kind of binder but I wish they had, or had suggested one. Coughing and laughing have really hurt this past week and I still have to be careful. But after graduating from sweatpants to yoga pants today, the extra support really does make a huge difference!

    Our maternity photos were taken by http://www.brionyhopephotography.com, who also came to the hospital to take brand new baby pics, and we just had a studio newborn shoot with her yesterday. She is amazing and we'll be hiring her for all our family portraits from now on, because if she can make an eight-months-pregnant lady feel gorgeous and sexy, she is truly a miracle worker, LOL. So I am going to give her a shameless plug for anyone who lives in the Denver area - she's by far the best value for the money AND the best family photographer in town <3

    Here's another one of my faves from the maternity shoot:

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    Early ovarian failure. 4 failed ICIs, 6 failed IUIs. Donor Egg IVF in Greece: IVF#1 12/2014 - BFP, miscarried at 6WK3D. IVF #2 4/2015 - BFN. IVF#3 7/2015 - BFP. Baby boy Searc born 4/8/16 - 9lbs, 2 oz <3

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    Mommy2016Mommy2016 Posts: 1,037
    edited November -1
    He's so perfect! My heart melts looking at him. <3 Congrats!
    Luca Gabriel was born 10/25/17 at 34 weeks, due to PROM. He's healthy and perfect! I'm in love!
    5/2015-BFN 6/2015-Chemical 8/2015-BFN 10/2015-BFN 12/2015-BFP (miscarriage)
    2/2016-BFN 4/2016-BFN 7/2016-BFN 10/2016-BFN 11/2016-BFN 12/2016-BFN 3/2017-BFP!!!
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    hoping4number2hoping4number2 Posts: 321
    edited November -1
    Precious baby! You two (three now!) have been on quite the journey to get to this moment! Congratulations! Take care of yourself - c section recovery is rough.
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    TheOtherLovingMomsTheOtherLovingMoms Posts: 1,481 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Omg he's one gorgeous baby!! Congrats mommies and I hope you heal quick!
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    Mom to Rachel 33, Bethany 30, Rebekah 30, Zachrey 20 and several angel babies
    Grandma to Larissa 11, Brittney 11, Trevor 11, Destiny 7, Jayvin 6, Jackxon 3, Kaleb Joshua Rian 1. Grandbaby #8, Sariah Grace born 11-17-16
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    melandfomelandfo Posts: 490
    edited November -1
    Congratulations! He is beautiful!

    Take it easy recovering from your c-sec! I had a 10 lb 7.5 oz baby via c-sec. I did way too much in the beginning and made my recovery much worse. Rest and let people help you! :)
    Courtney and Melissa
    TTC # 1 w/PCOS & Hypothyroid
    17 cycles finally BFP
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    katookatoo Posts: 324
    edited November -1
    Congrats! He is beautiful!
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    merryshannonmerryshannon Posts: 503
    edited November -1
    Melandfo - good lord that is a BIG baby!! I've also been trying to do too much, and slowing recovery as a result :/ every day does get a little better but it's seriously rough. Also, baby boy has a tongue tie problem that makes his latch very painful. I don't yet have a supply that can keep up with his appetite, so he has also resorted to biting to try and get more milk out :( He has an appointment for Tuesday to get the tongue tie snipped, in the meantime I am pumping and then bottle feeding him everything I can plus formula. I can't breastfeed until after his procedure because my pain meds can't keep up with His Royal Biteyness :P we're going to keep trying though!
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    Early ovarian failure. 4 failed ICIs, 6 failed IUIs. Donor Egg IVF in Greece: IVF#1 12/2014 - BFP, miscarried at 6WK3D. IVF #2 4/2015 - BFN. IVF#3 7/2015 - BFP. Baby boy Searc born 4/8/16 - 9lbs, 2 oz <3

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    New-mama?New-mama? Posts: 593
    edited November -1
    Merryshannon have you tried breastfeeding with a nipple shield. It is usually used when babies have a hard time latching on or to give moms a buffer while breastfeeding so nipples can heal. It is usually something short term and you remove it when the breast heals or as latch improves. They sell them at most places that have breastfeeding supplies.
    TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
    May 2017 IUI BFP!!!!
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    merryshannonmerryshannon Posts: 503
    edited November -1
    Yes I have one - have tried it a few times but he struggles to latch onto it at all and usually just gets very angry and frustrated. Will keep trying, though <3
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    Early ovarian failure. 4 failed ICIs, 6 failed IUIs. Donor Egg IVF in Greece: IVF#1 12/2014 - BFP, miscarried at 6WK3D. IVF #2 4/2015 - BFN. IVF#3 7/2015 - BFP. Baby boy Searc born 4/8/16 - 9lbs, 2 oz <3

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    melandfomelandfo Posts: 490
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    Oh my goodness! You poor thing!! My little guy had a tongue and lip tie and they had me nurse right after the procedure was over and it was an immediate difference and kept getting better! I hope it is the same for you!

    Have you thought of trying fenugreek to boost your supply? It almost doubled my supply and my sister-in-laws more than doubled. We both took 1800mgs 3 times a day and there was a noticeable difference in the supply in 24 hours!

    Hang in there! I know the first month is tough but it does get easier! Hugs!
    Courtney and Melissa
    TTC # 1 w/PCOS & Hypothyroid
    17 cycles finally BFP
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    ljimpey86ljimpey86 Posts: 387
    edited November -1
    Congrats! He is beautiful!
    Wife to DH with hypopitutarism and azoospermia
    TTC~
    Try #1 ICI 8/15 -BFN
    Try #2 ICI & IUI 9/15 -BFP!

    Abbigail Helen born 6/5/2016 7lb6oz
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    ljimpey86ljimpey86 Posts: 387
    edited November -1
    I also want to say that I absolutely love your maturity pictures Merryshannon! They really capture the moment and the love between you both (well 3 now!).
    Wife to DH with hypopitutarism and azoospermia
    TTC~
    Try #1 ICI 8/15 -BFN
    Try #2 ICI & IUI 9/15 -BFP!

    Abbigail Helen born 6/5/2016 7lb6oz
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    blkbrd3blkbrd3 Posts: 1,221 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Congratulations to you all. The one thing I longed for the most during this period was good sleep so I'm sending you all wishes for good nourishing sleep. May 15 minutes feel as good and restful as a solid 8 hours.
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    MNmommasMNmommas Posts: 1,081
    edited November -1
    OMG!!! Gorgeous - moms and baby! He's perfect!!! Congratulations! :D:D:D
    Donor 7070, births 2012 & 2013
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