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old mamaold mama Posts: 4,682 ✭
edited November -1 in Pregnancy and Babies
I never went to dr. to confirm miscarriage. I accepted that I lost the baby. TMI--sorry---I bled what for me was heavy for three days. I wasn't that far along so even though I haven't felt the best I was moving on. Symptoms disappeared gradually over the last week. Then this weekend. I have had severe nausea, migraine headaches, fatigue--I have fallen asleep in my chair several times, lower abd aches and pain and some lower back pain as well. I know it can be something else entirely...but I am making an appt. with dr. tomorrow. I keep rereading posts made by moms who had the pain and bleeding and went on to have healthy babies. I just feel I am opening wounds emotionally. I am trying NOT to get my hopes up. I know I need to do this. I'll let you know. Thanks...I just needed to talk...

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    New-mama?New-mama? Posts: 593 ✭
    edited November -1
    I hope you get the answers you need. Good luck on your appt tomorrow
    TTC attempt 1: ICI Dec 2015 BFN/Attempt 2-3 IUI Jan&April 2016 BFN/Attempt 4: 1ICI 1 IUI May 2016 BFN/Attempt 5-7: ICI-June, Sept, Nov 2016 BFN/Attempt 8-9 iui April 2017 BFN.
    May 2017 IUI BFP!!!!
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    RedHeatherRedHeather Posts: 600 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    I'm glad you are going to the doctor at least to rule out anything like an ectopic. Hopefully you'll get confirmation of a viable pregnancy, though!
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    arogers470484arogers470484 Posts: 96
    edited November -1
    I'm glad you are going to the doctor, you can never know for sure what these things are. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts.
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    blkbrd3blkbrd3 Posts: 1,221 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Oh honey... hugs to you and your tattered heart.
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    michgirlmichgirl Posts: 406 ✭✭
    edited November -1
    Have you POAS after the bleed?
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    ahk00ahk00 Posts: 1,420 ✭
    edited November -1
    Many hugs old mama!
    SMBC: TTC since 12/2014: 3 home attempts: 2 BFN & 1 chemical. 3 medicated Dr assisted IUI's: 2 BFN & 1 BFP (04/24/15) with twins in May (new donor) MC with D&C @ 9w. 4th IUI 09/17/15: BFN. 10/15: hsg good. 11/15: BFN. 01/16: BFN. 05/16: Embryos arrested. IVF failed 06/16: KD BFN 07/16: KD BFN 09/16: IUI #7 with donor sperm BFP-MC at 9w w/ D&C. 02/17: diagnosed with hetero compound MTHFR & clotting mutation. 03/09/17 IUI #8: chemical pregnancy. IUI #9: 04/19/17 BFN LOOKING FOR EMBRYO'S TO ADOPT
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    JandRVAJandRVA Posts: 298
    edited November -1
    Big hugs to you, oldmama. I really hope the doctor can provide you with some answers.
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    Trying for Baby #2: 4th IUI June 2016 - BFP!
    Sweet little Rose was born on Feb 25th
    Baby #1: Lucky #7 July 2015 - BFP
    Our little girl, Hope, was born at 20w4d after PPRoM. She passed away 2 hours after birth.
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    old mamaold mama Posts: 4,682 ✭
    edited November -1
    Thank you...all my child care fell through and I could not get ANYONE for the last two days...soooo....only thing I could do was to buy a good pregnancy test...it was showing negative now...so no baby...I am not sure what is going on. I have had some bladder/kidney infection in the past and for some odd reason occurred after miscarriages...so...I am drinking all the water I can. Migraine has eased to a minor irritation. I still don't feel the best so just watching and waiting to see what happens. I appreciate the support.
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    caliejonescaliejones Posts: 222
    edited November -1
    Old Mama, I am so sorry. HUGS~~~
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    perry261perry261 Posts: 564 ✭✭✭
    edited November -1
    I am so sorry you are going through all this.
    Krystal - 28 - Future SMBC - PCOS - Pre-Diabetic - Insulin Resistant - MTHFR Carrier - Hypothyroidism - IUI 3/20/16 - BFN | ICI on 5/28/16 - BFP!! Sadly I miscarried on July 21, 2016 | ICI on 9/11/16 & 9/12/16 - BFN | IUI on 10/12/16 - BFP Due July 2017!!

    Charlese was born on June 17, 2017 at 8:33 AM. She was the most gorgeous baby I've ever seen. She came into this world weighing 7 lbs and 5ozs. She was 19 1/2 inches.

    Will try for #2 around September 2019! I’m ready to complete my family!
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    kelleymelkelleymel Posts: 1,402 ✭
    edited November -1
    I'm so sorry
    TTC #1: BFP Cycle #11 IVF (2014)
    TTC #2: IVF April 2017
    BFP: FET Due February 2018
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