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13 days late and counting...WTF? (rant)

Jccwill3Jccwill3 Posts: 687
edited May 2012 in Trying to Conceive
So, evidently there's something wrong with me.... 13 days late as of today and I'm losing my mind. I try not to think about it but then when my thoughts stray and I DO think about it... I'm totally consumed with it. Like I was telling a friend if I'd had a one night stand with some douche bag, I'd be freaking out worried....so I guess the grass isn't always greener. Whatever that means.

I'd just wish AF would show up so I could know one way or the other.This is really torture at 30 DPI

I already have 40 day cycles from hell. Now, I'm CD 52... And frankly about to jump out of my window and hope to catch my eyelid on a nail (okay not reeeeeally, but I'm sure you can imagine my frusteration). :o there's not sign of AF anywhere... I mean, she's gone completely AWOL.

Gone through 3 boxes of FRER and 2 cheapies from the dollar store about to break down for

either the digitals or blood work. I just don't really feel like another dr. Visit just to hear them say Im not pregnant... After stabbing me with a needle.
The words are just so harsh, I think id be more emotionally stable with the HPT screen display. Thoughts? Opinions?

Thanks for listening ladies. Any input appreciated... I know there are a few people on the board going through this same thing. Feel free to PM me please; misery just loves company.


  • merilungmerilung Posts: 1,177
    edited November -1
    i have long cycles, too, and i've had a couple of killer abnormal ones - 55 and 70 days. i suspect both were just skipped ovulation - even if you have a LH surge, it doesn't definitively mean that you've ovulated, unfortunately. the digital tests are actually less sensitive than FRER's and most internet cheapies, so i wouldn't waste money on those at this point. anyway, i totally sympathize - being in limbo for this long really, really sucks.
    TTC since September 2007 - 8 donor insems in 2012, all BFN. DH had varicocele repair #2 1/3/14.
    It worked! Two clomid cycles and two IUI's with injectables all BFN, on to IVF! 3dt of 2 perfect embryos on 12/15/14, BFP 7dp3dt! Frederick Lars born at 37 weeks on 8/15/15!! FET for #2 on 9/29/16 - BFP 5dp5dt!! Bertram Wilder and Mabel Moon born at 28.4 weeks on 3/29/17!
  • old mamaold mama Posts: 4,682
    edited November -1
    I had one super long one like that I too think I skipped a cycle. Pretty much timing showed that is exactly what happened. I don't blame you for not wanting that blood test. To me there hardly anything worse than getting that "you are not pregnant" call. Hope things work out for you soon.
  • BooAnn2011BooAnn2011 Posts: 894
    edited November -1
    Do you temp? What's your FF chart look like? I say call the doc and get that blood test. Put your mind at ease. Stressing can also cause AF to be late ;). You know I'm hoping this is your bfp!! :D FX
  • mommylovemommylove Posts: 1,582
    edited November -1
    I would absolutely schedule a blood test. Especially because IF you intend to try again (if in fact it is a BFN) you may need help jump starting AF.
    October 2014


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